Unfortunately, not every hookup can be as hot as Eddie Patrick’s back-to-back fuckfest with Johnny Donovan and Jkab Ethan Dale in Addicted to Love. Unshared kinks or a lack of chemistry can lead to a bad time that will make you want to make your way for the door.
A Redditor inquired if he was the jerk to walk out of a hookup he wasn’t into. Of course, people aren’t obligated to stay in any sexual encounter they aren’t comfortable in. It’s never too late to back out of a strange situation.
However, fellow Redditors have an issue with how he handled this situation.
The original poster (OP) went to hook up with a salt-and-pepper daddy type, which started well enough. The man got in his sling for a deep asspounding. He took a big whiff of poppers while taking that meat in his hole. That’s when he made “the stupidest faces in the world.”
He initially tried to ignore the gooning daddy’s faces. As he indulged in more poppers, those expressions didn’t go away. “I [tried] looking away. however, he has a giant full-length mirror on the wall and all I could see is the idiotic faces he’s making.”
The OP left his place “without a word” to avoid insulting his kink. “He asked me what was wrong with a quizzical look on his face, however, I cannot unsee the gooning faces he made. To be honest, I blocked him.”
The Redditor asked the community if he should have mentioned the turn-off to his hookup before taking off.
Most responses agree that the OP should have said something – leaving without a word is rude. “This isn’t working for me” seem to be the magic words in the comments.
What do you think – is the OP a jerk for walking out on his hookup like that?
That’s what hoods are for
Perfect answer! End of discussion!