Why did gay porn star Dayton O’Connor get married to a woman? In his first interview since the wedding, he explains why.
Here’s some lost footage from the other night’s Cybersocket Awards, beginning with perpetual dreamboat Jeremy Bilding and some Superman talk, and then Dayton “I’m A Married Man” O’Connor.
Don’t let his use of air quotes and his reluctance to give any real details diminish your faith in his love for his wife (who’s in the military). It’s “kinda” legit!
Well, that should clear up any doubts.
Photos from the ceremony:
BONUS!
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WOW! Dayton O’Connor married a woman! He loves dick and man ass too much to be straight. He states his wife is in theh Navy. He probably married her for the health insurance. He can do as he pleases and I’m not judging I just find the whole thing odd. He’s so gay.
Dayton Oh no! Why did you marry? I wanted to marry you … hahaha :) just kidding, I would love to meet you, congratulations on your marriage, and be very happy!
LOL. I have a major major crush on Dayton. In his porn videos, he is so rough and masc. well until I heard him speak in the video above. hahahahhahah. I still have a crush on him. He is so cute.
I guess Dayton can do what he wants. Too bad he didn’t want to be committed to his boyfriend. I just wanted to post and say that Jeremy Bilding is a queen haha. For whatever reason I am always at the same place as this guy and the only thing that is not gay about him is that he says he is not gay. Gotcha. Only someone from a small town could think they are getting away with being mostly str8 or open or whatever he says he is lol. The porn industry is so backward. I think it has to to with socio-economics. There are all kinds of out gay guys, but sadly in 2011, that majority, according to a study at Emory University, come from middle and upper income families and have been to college. And that is not the porn world. This Dayton is fee to to whatever he wants, but the fact that he wants to marry a women, for whatever reason, is bizarre. He can say that it is just a personal choice, but then he slashes out at “SD Homos.” Obviously there are some issues. Poor guy. Porn can be a lot of fun to watch, but when you pull back the curtain it is always so sad.
I’ve met “Dayton” a few times and I just have one word: arrogant. My ex, who used to do porn, did a scene with him and told me how full of himself he was. I constantly run into guys that slept with him, and for a while it was impossible to go to any gay bar, club, or wet underwear contest without him showing up and acting like we should all be thankful for his presence.
My guess is that his career has started to slip so he pulled this stunt to be back in the spotlight. He’s about as gay as they come, and the only nice thing I’ve ever heard anyone say about him is that he has a big dick… I’ve seen bigger, and on cuter guys.
I wish I knew who his wife was and I turn them in….they’re committing fraud (he’s obviously a Kinsey 6). What a piece of scum.
Dayton, I am happy for you. Your scene in the orgy of “pizza Boy Gang Bang” was so hot I shot every time when you shoved your dick in landon mycles mouth and face fucking him hard.
Zach Im over this conversation thank you for a great time at the awards. to everyone else thanx for your thoughts.
Facebook Friends already know how i feel trust me
manners something you cant teach sometimes.
personal life personal decisions.
that is all….
Dayton honey, no just no. When you decided to post photos of your “marriage” you knew you opened yourself up to comments and criticisms. I will best honor Zach’s comments and only say that what you describe people from San Diego I have heard many of those descriptions apply to you. BTW since a large majority of your facebook friends are from the San Diego area, I’m sure they would love to hear how you describe them.
As far as my job goes honey I have a bachelors and masters degree from two world class universities and have the job of my dreams (though I’m in red state hell right now), not bragging but just sating the facts. Not a San Diegian either, a true Angeleno Harvard-Westlake class of (none of your business). In other words, I’m perfectly happy the way my life has gone so far so don’t worry about me doll.
You can’t be an attention whore then whine and get mad when it doesn’t go your way. Kind of like Paris Hilton stepping out of a car with her legs open and beef curtains hanging out then complaining that the press invaded her privacy.
Think we could have this discussion without misogynist terms like “beef curtains” being tossed around, please?
If you saw the picture then you would know beef curtains would fit the description of what was between her legs. If beef curtains is misogynist then I guess wiener would be misandry then. Fair enough lets stick with lady ham, whisker biscuit, pork chop sandwich, quadriplegic squirrel, hair pie, or bearded clam.
On top of having all of that, are you good looking? I’m looking for a husband so….
Dayton is a nice guy and not hurting anyone so leave him alone.
Thank you Zach :)
OK guys, I’m breaking my rule of “not commenting on my own site” to say this: LEAVE DAYTON ALONE! You’re acting like he drowned a box of puppies. Relax.
Cant anyone notice when ppl are Fucking with them??? lol lets just get past this and watch the tweeker model or something. lol xoxoxo
I also just want to say that my “Modern Family” approach to living life in this world really is no one’s biz. I posted pics so that those who are my “friends” can feel a bit of joy for me. Needless to say there is way more to this story. Lets just say im planning my life for me and who ever i may share it with is up to I and not you. I hate to see some of y’alls life details be put under a micro scope. lord only knows what we might see and comment on…. best wishes love Dayton :)
LOL NO one knows what they are talking about!!! IM still with my BF and I was NEVER DUMPED he was with me this was a choice to help and considering we know each other for EVER means we can do what we want when we want!!! Soooooooooo to the fallowing I say this….
Crystal- you dont know what your talking about! No one has dumped anyone so dont say things you dont know are true!!
Estelle- You’re dumb lol really ppl like you blow thing out of proportion get a life …. and if you really knew me from “friends” in SD HAHAHAHAHAHA god help you. Im not friends with really anyone in SD Because they are liars, tweekers, back stabbing self loathing fearful judgmental pigs with no real sense of… i think ill stop there. oh and I do work for a company much better than im sure than you are working for… PR Marketing and Event Management for a local DT Media company that has produced and covered some of San Diego’s finest events, and no not the sad ones happening in your room. Rarely am i a rude person but when ppl like you shovel you over inflated ideas down others throats you tend to be an even sadder person than one might be led to believe. so to Estelle i say save your breath because no one cares what you have to say especially if you’re like every other SD homo.
two things:
a.) Like your opinion is going to change these peoples minds. AND if you really felt, “no one cares what you have to say”.. then you wouldn’t be actively visiting the page on here and making responses to random strangers, whom as you’ve stated, don’t know you.
b.) releasing your personal info, such as where u work, isn’t going to impress people… and may even give people an opportunity to fuck with you.
do yourself a favor, take your own advise and just keep quiet. you are making yourself look bad.
YASSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! You slayed them!
What I think is priceless is Jeremy Bildings’s facial expression after hearing the news!!!!
Yea! LIKE THAT ASSHOLE IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE MAKING THE FACE! jerk.
What a Clown…
Don’t let him fool you – I know for a fact he had a boyfriend up until this week when someone texted his BF that he was married. BF freaked out and dumped him and now “Dayton” is spinning this like he wanted it to come out.
can’t say i care or mind.
i treat this marriage like any other–an arrangement or legal contract. It doesn’t mean you love them…believe it or not marriage wasn’t always about love. And yes, straight people have used marriage in other capacities for convenience or power brokering. They’ve done so for millennia.
Lay off the kid. If the wife knows what is going on, then by all means, he is doing right by her for being honest—and if she doesn’t mind, then why should I?
totally homo, and married his fag hag for military Basic Allowence for Housing, medical, dental, ect.
i see people do it all the time… eating up my tax $$ . lol jerks
Well to be honest I thought she looked a little bit pregnant in those pictures
RandyN you’re an idiot “gay cultists”? Talk about self loathing. Pointing out a that someone’s suspect marriage looks like a fraud and farce isn’t hating pussy you silly queen. If turning your back on someone means you point out the idiocy of an out gay man getting married to a woman and treating it as a joke while millions of gay and straight Americans are fighting for marriage equality then yes I guess that is turning your back on someone. If turning you back on someone means calling out someone who is taking the easy way out by living a lie. I realize that his “wife” knows what he does for a living and his sexual identity is but it doesn’t negate the issue of it being a fake marriage. Not legally but in all other aspects. I love women Randy, but at this point in my life no amount of $$$ is enough to compromise my integrity or dignity for financial or personal gain. Living your life openly and honestly in the end is worth it.
No it’s none of our business, but you can’t really play that card when you tweet pics of your wedding, talk about it on video, and are obviously getting off on the attention. Barry Diller is a gay man who married a woman (Diane Von Furstenberg) so her kids would get his inheritance. Gawker or some other site like that posted pics of his holiday vacation with a bunch of young twinks. It was pitiful and sad. Reading Michael Musto’s blogs and the comments about Calvin Klein the comments were split into issues 1) The idiocy of a 68 year old man dating someone who is young enough to be his grandson 2) The fact that he ran back in the closet when the AIDS crisis hit and did and said nothing while his peers and fuckbuddies were dying or being discriminated against because they didn’t choose to be cowards. It also highlights what a farce the discriminating marriage laws are. Calvin Klein, Barry Diller, and Dayton O’Connor can get involved in sham marriages and receive all the tax breaks, benefits, discounts, incentives etc…. that heterosexuals get with marriage but gay and lesbian couples who want to get married because they love each other, and want to build and protect their families are denied those rights.
So perhaps there might be a few of us who don’t get what is great about marrying someone under questionable circumstances or seeing someone treat it as a big joke is a good thing. Especially the ones who want to get married but can’t and take the issue seriously.
I see the gay cultists are up and about again…
@Dayton, congrats on your marriage! If you guys decided together that is what you should do, it’s nobody’s business offering opinions or, as the case may be, spewing hate.
@Estelle, NJS, Rich and other losers that might show around: Being gay is NOT a cult, hate pussy is not one of its commandments, porn models are not its ministers! As such, they don’t have to adhere to what I am sure is a very strict gay conduct rule-book that you made up in your heads!
Seriously people, to be part of, probably, the most discriminated against minority, and yet turn back and do to another person the same things is scary…and stupid. Models or actors are allowed to do in their lives whatever the fuck they want, as long as it’s not illegal. I am pretty sure Dayton didn’t get married to a woman just to spite the LGBT community.
I don’t know who in the hell you think you are trying to charge up but don;t come at me like that. Despite what it is or maybe, I didn;t say anything about his marriage. I know that sexuality is not all black and white. I am just saying that I thought he was gay. That’s what he said.
Wow people are still doing this in 2011? What a pitiful excuse for a gay man or a man for that matter. No Dayton it’s not a real marriage it’s one clouded in fraud and desperation. I know more about Mr. O’Connor from friends in SD then I care to know and I what little respect I had for him before just went to zero. No lets hope you phase yourself out of gay porn since you (and maybe your bride too) don’t have the guts or balls to be in a open gay relationship but have no issue with posting photos of your “marriage”, stop making $$$ off the local gay community in San Diego with your “promotional work”, and get a real job.
Amen to that.
Im not an escort!
and I have a place of my own with two other roomies and I already have health care.
Well ain;t this a bitch? I ended my crush on Dayton when I thought he was 100% gay.. This is upsetting… I don;t really know what to say…Dayton O’Connor STILL has the best stroke I’ve seen from a white guy, but I;m upset….
An old story, marrying for benefits. His escorting didn’t last, so at least he’s getting shelter and health care out of this, and probably a dependent’s allowance.
LOL love this :) To re-confirm It’s a Real Marriage. She Is a Great friend and one of the most beautiful women I know. I had a GREAT time at the awards with everyone!!! Lets hope for some nominations for the next awards show!!! I wow you did catch me after some cocktails with fellow prior to the evening so I get kinds gayer lol lets just focus on the smoking vegas trip video Im a bit more butch it that one lol :) Thanx again for the amazing night fellow porn stars and attendees!
Well, congratulations on your marriage, then! :)
Eh, I’ve seen military marriages between actual heterosexuals based on less. Really, any warm body will do when it comes to getting a better housing arrangement. At least they’re fond of each other.
That… was not overly convincing. If I were the wife I’d be fucking kicking his ass about now.
He might as well have been mumbling “I love my wife” around the dick in his mouth while throwing glitter out of his handbag.
Ah, whatever. He’s a hot fuck, that’s what matters.