He goes by Lance, he’s mostly a top, aged approximately 34, grew up Mormon and also serves as a staff writer on HBO’s Big Love. We’ll leave the profiling up to Defamer, and the Bay Area Reporter, but we’ll just pause to say we don’t really *get* whether his love of “How Stella Got Her Groove Back” is supposed to be ironic, or what?

You can also see him alive and moving in this video with Gus Van Sant, shot while the film crew was setting up to shoot the re-enactment of the candlelight march up Market Street after the shooting of Milk and Mayor George Moscone. You can see he’s a little shy on stage. Also, here he is with some A-gays (and porn pup Brent Corrigan) at a Pride weekend pool party in LA.

Also, check out the Milk trailer if you haven’t already. OK, yes, onto the pics, which only showed up on his Facebook a couple weeks back.