Holy shit, you guys. After seven marvelous years in the gay porn industry, superstar Tommy Defendi is calling it quits, as his agent Howard Andrew announced today.
We’re still awaiting some explanation and a quote from Tommy. But apparently the multiple Grabby Award winner and current nominee plans to hang up his jock, so to speak, after the 2015 Grabby Awards. [Update: Howard Andrew says that Tommy “is making no comments at all to anyone about this until Grabby Night… he has a few things to say and will open up then.”]
This means we’ll be spending the next month recapping career highlights, etc. Because we’ve all watched Tommy grow up from a straight young buck trying to earn a buck to a handsome, bearded, bisexual man who truly gets off on fucking dudes. And you can even own his award-winning cock now, as a dildo anyway.
Just a few recent highlights below, and some recent photos.
Tommy in his Grabby-nominated performance in NakedSword’s Dirty Rascals.
Tommy fucking Adam Ramzi in Raging Stallion’s Timberwolves:
Tommy playing a therapist to two twinks, and then fucking them, for Helix.
Tommy bottoming for Bryce Evans on last year’s fourth season of So You Think You Can Fuck on Dominic Ford.
And here he is choking on two cocks, and bouncing on a cock, circa 2010-2012.
One of my favorites. One of the most Beautiful Delicious Perfect Cock in porn. Best Wishes to him.
i am huppy for him
And this is a bombshell?
Uhm, it’s okay, but then again, NOT.
‘Kay Buh-Bye
-H.Q & J
my all time favorite!
I am embarrassed ter call ye jerks that have a problem with Tommy bitches shut the fuck up I bet all of the ones picking on him and hating on him are sad sorry arse excuses fer human being ye all should know better then that we are suppose ter be a family and yet ye bitches are worse than the homophobes we deal with already. Now I’ve said me piece and on that note grow the fuck up ye dumb cunts.
It’s about time… he’s leaving while he’s still gorgeous, at a sexual peak, and relevant, instead of fading into the background. Good for him. And who knows, maybe he’ll reappear the way Johnny Hazard and Brent Corrigan did…
Tommy is such sweetheart. His bright smile, huge brown eyes, and sassy, quick wit are what I will miss the most. xoxo
As to the hard cock, most take pills for that so not a big deal. He definitely could act unlike most and has a down to earth acceptance of himself. I only wish it was Sebastian Young retiring instead on Tommy.
As for Tommy not being completely hard when he fucks guys, I don’t think he is ever able to get really hard, as is the case with many large dicks!
You’re right about that.
Tommy is truly bisexual, having had boyfriends in the past! One of them was singer Killian Wells!
Tommy has always described himself as “bisexual but I don’t date men” and I would add to that phrase except for money. He has always lived with women and only women. If he was “boyfriends” with Killian Wells as you say it was for some kind of remuneration, I guarantee you. I like Tommy and have enjoyed his scenes,limp dick and all. He is almost the definition of “you are who you fuck for free”.
rumor has it he has a contract with a rich daddy.
Goodbye, limpdick! Only Zachary Sire and Mr Pam will miss you, certainly. And yes, dude was never hard when he fucked guys.
For sure it’ll be a hole in gay porn for a while, Tommy realy did a great job topping or bottoming. I Hope he’s leaving for good reasons, and if in the future he intends to come back obviously he’ll be welcome, I think I’ll miss him a little. Good luck Tommy !
Lots of j.o. because of Tommy! Thanks! I do not like beras, but Tommy was a sexception. Good luck Tommy, go far and well.
The concept of Bisexuality really escapes so of you doesn’t it? Some of you make it sound like he is g4p (that concept of g4p is a whole other blog post), and If he did choose to pursuit Straight porn, why is that a problem like some of you all are making it seem.
I hope he’s retiring because he wants to settle down and start a family or something. But whatever he does, I wish my fellow Chicagoan the Best of Luck.
Connor Kline, Liam Magnuson, Woody Fox and now Tommy. One more of my ‘reliables’ that I’m now gonna have to do without. Wouldn’t think of begrudging him though, Tommy leaves a great body of work, the kind time cannot damage, and it’ll always be there. Best of luck to you always, Tommy, and thanks for the boners. :)
Nah there’s so many models with HIV on the DL. I doubt that would be the reason even if he was HIV+.
Thanks for all the hot scenes Tommy. Good luck in your future endeavors.
He’ll be back when he needs down payment money for that Miata.
Is it also possible that he might have a disease or he was so tired watching straight porn before the love making scenes?
God you’re a nasty piece of work. Try saying something nice for once, and if you can’t then do just shut up with your nonsense.
AMEN, brother!
I kind of wondered about that when he did scenes with Trenton Ducati and Mike Dozer.
To me one of the tip offs is when you see prolific models who used to work with the big name studios go work for skeezier studios.
Like there’s a certain model from a popular amateur site who went on to work with several big name studios but later went on to work with places Dirty Tony, Dark Alley and Treasure Island Media. I’ve always suspected he eventually got HIV and that’s why he was relegated to these horrible studios later in his career.
Tommy Defendi, Christian Wilde and Connor Maguire…3 of the gay porn stars with the biggest body of work in the history of gay porn…and oddly not gay.
Other porn stars may be better but I’m hard pressed to think of models who have appeared in more scenes then any of these 3.
I’m guessing you have a disease also.
Oh, no, he hasn’t ever had sex with a man (or maybe once, he lies so much it’s really hard to tell). But the Philippines has a pretty high HIV rate, according to the WHO.
Never been a fan of his so not gonna miss him really.
Not a fan. I like my men rock hard when doing their scenes as both top and bottom, and in all his scenes he was only about 65% hard… pushing rope is what they call it.
He’s a good actor, i’ll give him that. He convinced us all he was into it during the last XXX years… However im convinced he was only here to take a paycheck. Congrats, Grad. You wont be missed. Sayonara.
mmm, Is tommy defendi leaving the gay porn? seriously? ok but ¿why do I have the impression that leaves the gay industry to begin a career in porn straight? He is not the first who has done this.
Straight porn won’t accept him he’s done so much gay porn. They’ll claim he has HIV and other STDs because he’s been on a lot of gay porn.
I’ve gotten off to more than a couple of Defendi scenes over the past couple of years and it will be a sad day when his retirement is made official. He’s one of the kings and should be treated accordingly even if you weren’t a personal fan. Best of luck to him and whatever his new pursuits are! Fyi, my favorite Tommy Defendi scene is actually a tie between when Tommy bottomed for Donny Wright in the Cockyboys gif above, and when he bottomed for Trevor Knight in a Men scene that was a three-way with Liam. Tommy was loving every inch of Trevor’s cock, though you could tell taking it all was a struggle for him. Viva Defendi!
“Superstar”…dude fucks for a living…smh..lol
He should have retired 6 years ago. How is going to earn money now? Working at MacDonalds?
Oh, Jordi, it’s not spelled with an “a”. “Mc” instead of “Mac”, at least here in North America.
Well, I’ll give him this… he knows when to make an exit.
While he may have been hot in the past, he’s now past his expiration date. It’s time he gracefully take the exit bow.
And if he wants to start a new career in straight porn, like Jeremy Bilding and Kevin Crows… I wish him luck !
Love you Tommy!!!
Nooooo! What a Bummer.
I get the sense he is going to get engaged or something.
Bye Tommy it means when you retire one possible gay man would have a job. Seven years in gay videos were too much for you as it you enjoyed fooling those old gay men. Dont come back again in our porn please but welcome to straight porn.
Why does he have to go into straight porn?
I think his next career move will be what al those other retiree porn stars do, become DJs.
BiPhobic much? Dude is not straight but bi but I guess that isn’t good enough, but yet you’ll follow a religion that damns who you are.
Smart move. I think he was starting to lose popularity as you didn’t see many new scenes from him and not many people brought him up in conversation on blogs.
The only thing I don’t like about all of this is that he won’t talk about it until Grabby night. That momentum builder just screams attention whore. And usually when a pornstar makes a huge deal about his upcoming retirement like he is starting to do right now, we see them come back within a couple of years.