The two have had a tumultuous relationship and an even more tumultuous break-up. Steffans alleged McCrary tried to run her over with his car this past June, and in August 2007, she alleged he “choked her until she passed out.”  McCrary filed a restraining order against Steffans, alleging stalking, and abuse.

We look forward to the day when everyone can take a deep breath and accept the fact that straight men, at least those brave enough to try, are allowed to like having their prostates massaged. Until then, the clip below represents a SCANDAL! of terrific proportions in the African-American former child star community.

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