Arpad Miklos Responds to His ‘Straight-For-Pay’ Haters
When the thick, furry he-man fucked a woman for Jake Cruise’s StraightGuys4GayEyes site last week, commentors across the internets got more offended than Kirk Cummings after we called him a tranny. Among the shopping list of indignancies: his co-star had ugly eyebrows, the sex was without a condom, Arpad must really be straight (he’s gay), Arpad must really be bi (he’s gay), Arpad must hate himself, Arpad must hate all of us! The commentors then borrowed from the gasping vocabulary of fundie wing-nutes by using annoying words like “boycott,” “vile” and “horrific.”
May I remind you that we’re talking about porn here? Here’s Arpad’s response to people who are pissy about pussy sex:
It was an adventure for me. If you don’t like it, then don’t watch it. One guy wrote to me saying that my scene was disappointing and started trashing pussies. I thought, well, then, why are you watching a site where all the sex has pussy in it?
Then there’s the backlash about the fact that he didn’t use a condom in this scene:
These people probably don’t know that in the straight industry you have to get tested constantly. But in the gay industry, there are no testing requirements. So in gay scenes, you have to assume that your partner is positive. That’s not so in the straight industry. My number one priority is my health.
Arpad is right. The straight industry is regulated and screened for STDs and HIV in a way that the gay industry is not. This makes it impossible to compare gay porn condom use with straight porn condom use.
When I asked Arpad where he thought most of the backlash was coming from, he said:
It gives them an excuse to trash pussy. They’re really, really against pussy, and they find every occasion to express it. I know all these guys might be fine with faghags and women in general, but they just can’t stand pussy, and they can’t stand to see someone they’re a fan of fucking pussy.
Yes — typing pussy that many times in a row made me queasy, and The Sword has taken a long-running stance against psycho-bitches, faghags and woo-girls in gay bars. But there’s a line to be drawn. After all, we entered into this world through a vagina, not a lubed-up asshole — and while you don’t have to watch vadge-porn, you also don’t need to feel personaly assaulted when a gay porn star decides to reintroduce his dick to the womb for a few experimental thrusts.
In conclusion, I asked Arpad to tell me the difference between fucking a vagina and an anus:
Pussy is definitely different from an ass. You don’t have the ring to fuck — the asshole itself — on your cock, so the pressure on your cock is the same the whole way through. And it’s wetter, a natural wet instead of lube, which feels different. But if I had to describe the difference with one word, I would say that pussy is softer.
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So let me get this “straight” no pun intended. It’s safer to have unprotected sex because of testing, but not safe to have protected sex because lack of testing. Uh huh. I’m not passing judgmenton anyone adult performer, but that was a lamest shit I ever heard.
As I said below (I misspelled “sense”)
I would NOT feel safe. African straights have the plague! “False sense of security” on a good day.
the article does not state that it’s “not safe to have protected sex” dimwit
People who demand that their porn stars only fuck like themselves are deeply, psychologically broken people and pathetically possessive/needy.
Bisexuality and recreational experimentation threatens their whole identity. Not what they do — what STRANGERS do — threatens their absolute notion of who they are or what gays should be allowed to be. So many of them are terrified that if they admit fucking a pussy, or even THE POTENTIAL for a pussy to be hot and fun, they will have to “turn straight” for heterosexist society and Christians.
Sorry, guys. Nobody’s cross-gender experimentation can change one’s sexual orientation or needs. And having a genuine bisexual orientation is A-OK! So is pussy play for fun.
I’m always disappointed in gay men who hate the vagina, think it’s disgusting or can’t see any virtues to ANY woman’s sexual potential. That’s a bigotry and a phobia EXACTLY LIKE homophobia.
When are people going to stop seeing sex that’s different from what they prefer as BAD and start seeing it as AWESOME and BEAUTIFUL for others?
The problem is this guy claims to be gay, it does a huge amount of damage when a gay guy fucks a girl and seems to enjoy it. At this time we are fighting for the right to marry and as a result of this ive already seen comments about how if he can do it so can all gay guys, and that we are just faking it or delusional. This has even been mentioned in meetings about gay rights!
Sure the people doing it are assholes and bigots, but oh hell does this ever give them fuel for their fire!
Another thing, why cant you accept that most gay men find pussy repulsive? Nt just a bit gross, or unattractive, but physically repulsive! This guys fans are very disappointed and put off by this, its like your favourite singer being arrested for kiddy porn.
WOW!
I’m not sure what you are “for” or “against”.
I think you are right about the “phobias”.
Hatred is the manifestation of fear (phobia).
Most strong “feelings” on any given topic are suspect.
I subscribe to Hustler magazine. Ol’ Larry Flint has a motto:
“It’s only sex!”
As expected, the focus here is on all the “pussy is gross” comments, and most of the legitimate and valid negative responses to this film have been completely overlooked by the commentator and Arpad himself. So could someone please tell me:
1) Why is it a man who has done hundreds of scenes with guys, all with condoms, and then does one with a girl WITHOUT a condom can’t grasp the fact that his fan base will immediately pick up on the discrepancy? I’m sorry, but if he really cared about his health, he wouldn’t be fucking without a condom, no matter what testing had or hadn’t been done. The fact that he’s uncut also means the rate of transmission is higher for him than a cut guy, so there’s no excuse whatsoever in him not wearing a condom, regardless of who he’s fucking.
2) Why, as a gay man, am I supposed to find a gay man fucking a woman to be exciting? The whole “if you don’t like it, don’t watch it” talk is complete bullshit and glosses over the fact that this clip has been heavily marketed toward GAY MEN–not straight or bi men or women, but GAY MEN. It appears on the “Straight Guys for GAY Eyes” site, for goodness sake. Whether you watch it or not, if you follow gay porn on the Web, you can’t avoid the damn thing. It’s everywhere, pushed by the studio. The pics are all over the place on GAY sites where gay men frequent, and Arpad is one of the biggest names in GAY porn. No, you don’t have to watch the film, but you can’t avoid the photos as they are all over the place.
3) If Arpad really is “100% gay,” as the marketing has gone out of their way to stress, then why did he want to fuck a girl in the first place? And why is he on a site where the guys are “straight”? The whole thing is such a huge contradiction that it’s ridiculous: Here’s a man fucking a woman yet going out of his way to emphasize “no, guys, I’m really gay.” So what does that really say? I’m basically just a whore who will fuck any hole for a paycheck and nothing more? If we’re not supposed to be believe that he’s straight, then why the hell should we believe he’s genuinely gay? These people contradict themselves all the time, so I never assume any of them are truly gay, no matter what they say. Even Jasun Mark (the director of this film) has gone on record as saying at least half of the gay for pay performers in the biz aren’t really straight, even though they swear that they are. Sorry, but you just can’t have it both ways. If those guys can lie, so can any other performer.
4) Yes, this is “just porn,” but if gay porn is supposed to be about creating a fantasy that keeps gay viewers aroused, yet you put something out there that significantly turns off a LOT of gay viewers, doesn’t that sort of defeat the whole purpose?
5) Lastly, in response to Gavin’s post: If you truly enjoy “pussy play for fun,” then please just do me one favor: NEVER call yourself a homosexual because that, like the marketing for this film, would be a lie. You may be a bisexual, which is perfectly fine and a truly awesome orientation for those who genuinely have and feel a sexual connection with both genders. But please don’t misrepresent your self when your actions clearly indicate otherwise. Fucking and enjoying pussy while declaring, “I’m really gay and am only doing this for fun” is a biggest load of bullshit that anyone can come up with. If a guy called himself straight yet said he only enjoyed fucking guys “for fun,” would you really and truly think of him as straight–especially “100% straight”? No…I didn’t think so.
Rather wordy. I like the fact you enumerate the points.
YOU ARE RIGHT ON ALL COUNTS!
I happen to be “bi” (yes Virginia, we DO exist!)
I DO agree with you about the HIV “testing”
(I would NOT feel safe. African straights have the plague! “False since of security” on a good day.)
I like a wide variety of porn. However, you are quite right about the “fantasy”.
The fur-ball, Arpad, is possibly the best example of a gay male,
Now he’s screwed that!
I believe Arpad infers it’s not safe to have gay sex, when he states “in gay scenes, you have to assume that your partner is positive”. Yet he willingly participates in these scenes. He could’ve used a condom for the straight scene, but I imagine it came down to money. As I stated before, he can fuck whatever he wants, I’m not passing judgement. I just thought his reasoning was faulty.
Don’t worry about the haters Arpad. I met you on the “F” train back in July. Super cool guy.
Arpad’s statement, “They [gay male viewers] just can’t stand pussy, and they can’t stand to see someone they’re a fan of fucking pussy,” is almost laughable. After 14 years of performing in gay porn and becoming one of the biggest names in the industry, he’s just now realizing that gay men are significantly turned OFF by pussy???? What planet has he been living on? Newsflash: If we actually LIKED pussy, then we wouldn’t be GAY! For what it’s worth, I personally am not repulsed by vaginas or the female body in general, and I can appreciate many forms of human sexuality and erotica. But yes, hearing a “gay” man describe the natural wetness and softness of pussy does make me cringe.
Instead of bitching and moaning about the backlash, how about doing the adult thing and taking responsibility for it? You fucked a chick for a paycheck and consequently turned off a significant number of your gay fans. Just own up to it instead of making excuses by blaming those “pussy hating” fags.
Seeing Arpad do this doesn’t surprise me at all. A while back I ran across his website & when I wanted to enter to look at his photos, it said I had to pay $25.00 to see the photos. Why would I pay for something that is already seen all over the net? I’m sure most of you will not agree with this next statement but, its my opinion & that’s all that matters. One can say they’re anything but, in reality you’re either gay or straight you can’t be both. So if he’s saying he’s both, he’s in denial which a lot of people are. What it comes down to is Arpad is doing what others do everyday, he goes to work to make money. The thing is, he should worry about whether or not his fans will stay loyal after this stunt. I for one don’t like pussy & I’m not going to try it just to make a quick buck. No gay man ever would. So, what does that make Arpad really? I think he can answer that one himself.
Don’t knock it ’till you’ve tried it
If you can’t be both can you be neither Matt? I’ll opt for neither if that’s ok with you.
Also, as it sounds like you’re one of those people who doesn’t see any reason to pay for porn, why would anyone in the porn biz give a rat’s ass what you think?
Arpad comes from a third world country, has no real abilities to work from, and is fucking old! Porn is his only means to make money, and his career is slumping. The straight-for-pay shoot was to be controversial and to get attention because he a losing work. He is desperate to get attention, and I’m not interested.
Boy! That’s some attitude.
Women like “older” men.
Maybe he’s just matured.
“… third world country …”?
I’m Czech (actually Slovakian, now)
Watch it!
I’m a fan of an old porn star that has done it all — Peter North / Matt Ramsey.
(Actually, NOT “all” — it turns out that he’s never “topped” as Matt Ramsey.)
Until age 28, I thought I was straight. I’ve been with my first-and-only gay since 1976.
(OK, it’s and open “marriage” , he was the first, but HARDly the “only”.)
I like Arpad’s accurate description of the difference between ass holes and cunts.
A vagina is THE most penis friendly orifice there is.
It doesn’t have teeth (of course it doesn’t have a tongue either)
It isn’t just a “ring” in between to muscular mounds of flesh. (I DO like that!)
It fits like a glove all the way in (and all the way out).
It is self-lubed.
AND
for us bi-guys, it’s positioned so that we can play with the other “toys”.
Thank you Arpad and (who ever the “reporter” is). I love the tone of this report.
I love a man that loves pussy! Most of the guys I get are mostly straight and they are the best I have ever had. I have never had a mostly gay man, as gays in my parts are into themselves and are not that loyal! I wish I could meet Arpad–he is perfect! I would even suck his cum out of her pussy and I am queer!!
gay men hating pussy are ridiculous-I’d almost say contemptous. I am gay and don’t find pussy or women repulsive at all. I just don’t get horny for them, though i probably could perform and get aroused somewhat. maybe I’m a little bi, say, a Kinsey 5 instead of 6!
I am disgusted by how most of you girls whine about people being close-minded and homophobic when you aren’t any better.
First of all, the site he preformed for is a gay site, yes. it’s straight porn for gay viewers. it features straight men having sex with women while the camera is focused on them and not the women. Why is that? well it may have not occured to you, but alot of us gay people have a fantasy for manly butch confident, dirty, horny “STRAIGHT” men, so here’s are the sites for us. Unlike sites like NYSM and Bait Bus which features their so-called “straight” men having intercourse with other men, some of us believe that he isn’t straight if he’s doing guys, he isn’t straight unless he’s doing the gals. So that’s why there’s SG4GE or whatever called. Anyways honestly, I believe that Arpad is really Bi. I mean c’mon, you can never find a gay guy who is so butch and manly, and purely top and then come out as pure gay, never happened in history. Gay people like to take it up the ass… for honesty.
I am so tired of you guys attacking us for being offended by this. Guess what? I don’t like ANY of this crossing-the-lines shit. Straight guys should fuck women. Gay guys should fuck men. Bi guys should fuck either. Period. I watch straight porn, but when I do, I want to know that the guy is straight! Same thing goes for when I watch gay porn. I think all this gay-for-pay shit is disgusting and it’s a slap in the face to all of us.
And all you queens who have placed these cocksuckers-for-cash on a pedestal just because they’re hot can stop nodding because you’re to blame for this mess. What? You don’t think we have enough hot, well-hung gay men to fill the roles in all future gay porn movies? Bullshit!
Look at someone like Ricky Sinz. The guy is a major asshole, but you drool all over him because he’s hot and has a body full of tattoos. Big fucking deal. I’ve heard him make numerous nasty comments about the very people paying for his home and car and he’s one of those behind all this straight-for-pay crap! In the meantime, we’ve got plenty of genuinely gay pornstars who are just as hot (and in the case of Logan McCree – just as tattooed) who don’t seem to be getting anywhere near as much recognition.
Reese Rideout is another prime example. Used to be a hot little pup. Because he has muscles and a cute face, you fall all over yourselves worshiping him and have made him a superstar, but every time he’s interviewed or shows up at some function, he just HAS to mention he’s straight and the latest fish he’s fucking.
These are our idols? They’re nothing but mercenaries who use their dicks instead of guns. Stop elevating them to godhood status and save it for someone who deserves it. And stop turning a blind eye to openly gay stars who do this straight-for-pay garbage. Sinz and Jake Cruise should be shut down for this affront to the senses.
And it doesn’t matter if all of Cruise’s “actors” are tested for HIV or not. THAT’S not the issue. The issue is the message it sends when a gay pornstar who knows better and always fucks men with a condom decides to fuck a woman without one. It DOES send the message that “straight sex is clean/natural, gay sex is dirty/unnatural.” Whether he (or we) likes it or not, he’s a representative for all of us, and this sends one fucking poor message.
As for Arpad’s claim about the testing being done in the straight porn industry: perhaps the reason why the gay porn industry doesn’t do it is because the AIM system used by the straight industry is shit. It’s highly inaccurate and is about as reliable as a gypsy fortune-teller. The man is just a self-absorbed, lying douchebag who doesn’t care about his fan base. He pulled a fucked up stunt and doesn’t want to admit to being wrong or face the consequences.
And it really pisses me off that when addressing the fans who are angry at him, he takes such a shitty, nonchalant attitude. “Just don’t watch.” The video and entire site are aimed at a gay audience. Besides, the damn news of this attrocity is all over the fucking internet! And he actually seems to be going out of his way to piss us off more by describing how much better he liked the sensation. This is NOT a gay man! He’s been lying for his entire career and now wants to switch tracks. Can’t do that little Hungarian. Straight porn won’t have your gay-for-pay ass. No way, no how. “Just don’t watch?” How about if we “just don’t watch” anything you ever do again? It’s what you deserve.
I hope Miklos’ career dies for this. Sad. He was so hot before this.
Oh, I agree with that “I hope Miklos’ career dies for this. Sad. He was so hot before this.” Now I can’t trust anybody that say “I am %100 gay”. I am disappointed. But I’m happy for I met some people here that same thought like me.
Right… A lot of guys are complaining about this whole “Straight for pay thing” when the opposite, “gay for pay”, is relished. Double standards I say. If you don’t want to watch it… guess what, You Don’t Have To! Magical!
And what I read earlier, WTF has this got to do with our fight with “equal marriage rights”???? Guess what, Guys Enjoy SEX! I know of many gay guys that have slept with women (some enjoyed it, some not), but would prefer a man over a woman anyday (and no they are NOT Bi, they were “straight curious”, just like how most here have fucked bi-curious guy before….). A lot of gay guys (who are secretly,or not so secretly, trying to get into a straight guy’s pants) always say that they “should try and see” and “experiment” and now get I-Rate when a gay guy does the same?? yet again… Double standards. And again… WTF has that got to do with Gay-Marriage?!
I applaud Arpad. Hater’s will hate regardless.